Support at work is a performance differentiator.

Section 1: The Problem (The Compliance Minimum)
Most HR departments view “support” through the lens of legal compliance. They ask, “What is the minimum we have to do to avoid an ADA lawsuit?”
This results in “Performative Support”:
- A “Quiet Room” that is actually a windowless storage closet.
- A “Flexible Work” policy that still requires you to be on-call 24/7.
- A “Neurodiversity Initiative” that focuses on awareness but changes zero day-to-day operations.
We aren’t interested in compliance. We’re interested in Optimization.
Section 2: Why It Happens (The Binary Trap)
The workforce is currently trapped in a binary: You are either “Normal” (independent and un-supported) or “Disabled” (dependent and supported).
For the AuDHD adult, this binary is a lie. You can be a high-performance executive and need a sensory-safe office. You can be a brilliant developer and need asynchronous communication to avoid executive burnout.

Section 3: Leviticus Take (The Technical Support Protocol)
I don’t look for “support” in empathy or understanding. I look for it in System Integrity. If your workplace doesn’t provide the technical infrastructure for your brain to output high-fidelity data, the workplace is broken.
The Three Technical Pillars:
- Asynchronous Architecture: Moving all non-emergency processing to written, searchable formats. This eliminates the “Social Noise” of meetings and phone calls.
- Deterministic Expectations: Replacing “vague” feedback with bulleted, metric-driven results. “Good job” is low-value data. “You met all 3 KPIs in the 48-hour window” is supportive data.
- The Hardware Firewall: Formal and informal access to high-end noise-canceling, light-filtering, and isolation tools.
Section 4: Riot Take (The Neural Belonging Model)
Leviticus wants the machine to run smoothly, but I want the person inside the machine to feel like they actually belong there. Support at work is about Identity and Community. It’s about not having to hide who you are just to keep your paycheck.
The Community Support Pillars:
- Peer-to-Peer Networks: Support is having a Slack channel specifically for neuro-divergent employees where we can talk about stims, burnout, and sensory safe-snacks without HR breathing down our necks.
- The Non-Performative Culture: A workplace where “stimming” (fidgeting, moving, rocking) is seen as a high-performance tool, not a distraction.
- Radical Transparency: Support is having a manager who says, “I see you’re hitting a neural redline; take the afternoon off to recalibrate—no apology needed.”

Section 5: Where We Disagree
Leviticus: I believe you should focus 90% of your energy on technical accommodations. They are legally protected and objectively measurable. “Vibe-based” community support is too fragile to rely on in a corporate environment.
Riot: And I think that’s how you end up as a lonely robot. If you only have technical support, you’ll still burn out because you’re carrying the emotional weight of being “different” alone. You need the people-bridge as much as the data-bridge.
Section 6: Shared Practical Framework (The Support Pillar Audit)
Every 90 days, audit your workplace support field.
1. The Friction Test
What is the single biggest “Pain Point” in your work week? If it’s sensory, apply a Leviticus Protocol (Hardware). If it’s emotional/identity-based, apply a Riot Protocol (Community).
2. The Disclosure Ledger
Who in your workplace knows the real “Owner’s Manual” for your brain? If the answer is “Only HR,” you are vulnerable. You need a mix of formal (compliance) and informal (trusted peer) disclosure.

Section 7: Specific Scripts for Workplace Support
Requesting Asymmetric Communication Support
“To ensure 100% accuracy in my technical output, I am moving to an ‘Asynchronous First’ communication model for this project. Please provide all core instructions in [Tool/Slack] so I can process the data without the social lag of a real-time meeting.”
Setting up a Peer Support Channel
“I’m looking to connect with other neuro-divergent professionals at the company to share life-hacks and sensory-safe work strategies. I’m starting an informal ‘Neural Resource Group’—no HR agendas, just peer-to-peer optimization. Who’s in?”
Protecting your Neural Budget (The Leviticus/Riot Combo)
“Protocol Alert: I’m hitting a heavy neural load today. To maintain my high-performance baseline for tomorrow’s client call, I’m activating a ‘Hard Logout’ at 3 PM. I’ll be un-contactable for recovery until 9 AM. See you at the technical review.”

If You Only Do 3 Things
- Move beyond compliance. If your support only exists in an HR file, it doesn’t actually exist. Build it into your daily SOPs.
- Bridge the Duality. You need the technical filters and the human belonging.
- No apology, just results. Deploy your support needs as professional requirements for high-performance work.
Welcome to the New Normal. Let’s build the room.